Habits that show improper upbringing in children

Dear parents,
HABITS THAT SHOW
IMPROPER UPBRINGING
IN CHILDREN
Please, carefully look
into the list below to
see where you may
want to make amends
on yourself or the
young ones you are
caring for.
Children, if not properly
groomed may never get
to the top in life, even if
the parents are at the
top of their career.
Manners take you to
where your education
can't irrespective of
your status, money or
the "who you know"
factor.
1) Going to your child's
school dressed
indecently? Think again.
2) Speaking rashly to
your child's teacher.
3) Cursing, using foul
words or swearing in
front of your children.
4) Using makeup on
children.
5) Dressing indecently
for children (they loose
the sense of their
princesshood).
6) Putting earrings on
your son's ears.
7) Your child hold the
cup or glassware by the
brim and you don't
correct.
8) Your children don't
greet and you just feel
they will come around
one day because they
have a mood swing.
( You will be blamed for
it)
9) Your children eat with
their mouth opened and
you feel they will grow
up some day.
10) Your children bring
home something you
did not buy for them
and you say nothing.
( that is the beginning
of stealing)
11) They talk back at
you and you conclude
it's okay since you are a
21st century mummy.
( You will hate yourself
if they do that outside
and they are
disciplined )
12) They interrupt
when you are speaking
with another adult and
you think they are bold
and clever. (Its really
bad manners)
13) They exercise
authority over their
nanny and domestic
staff and you let them
be. ( that is bad
parenting)
14) They say things like
"my driver is on his
way..."
I am not an advocate
that children should call
your domestic staff
aunty or brother, calling
them by name when
they are not young
people is not poise
either. The use of Miss,
Mr or Mrs will look good
on them.
15) Your children don't
say- 'Thank you' when
they have been helped
or served something
and you are cool with
that. (Bad parenting)
16) When your children
cannot stand children
who are less privileged.
18) When they pick their
nose with their hands.
19) When they don't
wash their hands after
visiting the washroom.
20) When your children
take something from
the fridge without
taking permission. (Bad
parenting)
21) When your children
don't knock on closed
doors.
22) When your children
don't collect from your
hands the stuff you
brought in as you walk
in through the door.
23) When your children
request for a bribe to
carry out their home
chores or extra task.
(That is disgraceful )
24) When your children
act like their grand
parents irritate them.
25) When your children
have not learnt to get
up from the chair for
the elderly or visitors to
sit.
26) When your child tells
a lot of lies. (You will
both cry in the future)
27) When your child
asks "who is that?" at a
knock on your door
instead of "please, who
is there."
28) When your child is
always seated by your
visitors when being
served drinks etc.
29) When your children
still point their fingers
at other people.
30) When your children
play and jump around
when prayers are going
on.(age 4 above). Dont
be a 21st Century
parent who cannot
correct a child. Train
your child in the way of
the Lord so that when
he grows up he will not
depart frm it. IT IS
BETTER TO LET YOUR
CHILDREN CRY AT AN
EARLY WHEN YOU
CORRECT THEM, IF NOT
YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT
NIGHT WHEN THEY
BRING DISGRACE TO THE
FAMILY WITH BAD AND
TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS